11 Things I Learned from Pastors’ Wives


Several months ago, LifeWay’s president  Dr.Thom Rainer wrote a post about pastors’ wives. The responses and comments were numerous and incredible. He re-posted it in January and I felt it’s so helpful not only for minister's wives but also for women’s ministry leaders that I wanted to re-post it in full here.  Use this as an opportunity to get to know, minister to, and love on all your church … [Read more...]

Without a Mask


This post is part of a series from leaders who spoke at our Women’s Leadership Forum in 2013.  Kathy Ferguson Litton spoke to ministry wives on the topic of being authentic. This post relates to ALL women!  “Inexperienced in the art of acting”, the words grabbed me. Why? This is the meaning of the word “sincere” found in 2 Timothy 1: 5 “Clearly recalling your sincere faith that first lived … [Read more...]

Ministry Wives… Find Your Porch

The Front -Cindy Beall

Today you will hear from guest blogger and pastor’s wife Cindy Beall as she shares how she is investing in time with her husband. Being a porch (or deck) lover myself, I see the effectiveness of setting this kind of time aside with our spouse, especially in the rush of our busy ministry lives. I had just become Mrs. Chris Beall when we moved into a little duplex on Mill Street in San Marcos, … [Read more...]

Minister’s Wife, How is Your Face?


Some days in ministry are just long and hard. How do we continue to radiate with Christ’s glory when you are worn out or frustrated? Read guest blogger Judy Patrick’s challenge to minister’s wives to have a glowing complexion! And it came about when Moses was coming down from Mount Sinai . . . that Moses did not know that the skin of his face shown because of his speaking with [God]. So when … [Read more...]

Those Women We Lead


Guest blogger and pastor’s wife Cindy Beall writes a great post today as one  who spends time pouring into the other wives on their staff. God doesn’t expect us to work magic; He just wants us to be available to the women He places in our sphere of influence. See how Cindy is doing this and share how you are leading your women. These lovely ladies are the strength behind the men who lead the … [Read more...]

Pastor, I Just Want You to Know How I Feel as Your Wife


Judy Patrick, guest blogger today, and pastor’s wife for over 35 years, does know “how it feels.”  I wonder if you have ever identified with any of these feelings written below? If so, perhaps you might want to share this with your husband! Honey, I know you’re busy—preparing sermons; visiting; attending deacons’ meetings; and the Johnson’s need marital counseling. This is just the beginning of … [Read more...]

A Pastor’s Wife Experiences Deep Darkness


Although guest blogger Judy Patrick has been a pastor’s wife for over 35, she knows that darkness can invade your life and ministry. Read her experience here and see how she found God in that darkness. After the birth of my last child, I experienced unimaginable depression and anxiety. Panic attacks occurred daily. Nighttime became an opportunity to escape life by sleeping, however, sleep did … [Read more...]

Between Us?


We have an event coming up called Between Us, and we keep getting asked the question, “What’s that?” and “Who’s that for?” Well, let me clarify… it’s a conference just for ministers’ wives! If your husband serves in ministry, this conference is for you. I feel a little crazy calling it a conference because it’s so much more than that, but we’ll just call it a conference for now. If you’re not a … [Read more...]

What Pastors’ Wives Wish They Had Been Told


Today, I am actually just going to link you over to Dr. Thom Rainer’s blog post on this. I worked with him on getting this simple research put together and just wanted you as a minister’s wife to see you are NOT alone in many of the things you face. Women’s leaders, these are things for you to be aware of as you minister to these women in your church. Find ways to reach out and encourage your … [Read more...]

Minister’s Wives Share Shoes

Ministry Wives Weekend 2009 from BGCO Women on Vimeo.As a ministry wife, what kind of shoes do you wear?  Listen to co-authors of In Our Shoes: Real Life Issues for Ministers’ Wives by Ministers’ Wives, Jennifer Landrith and Rachel Lovingood,  as they share their thoughts about the different kinds of shoes ministry wives wear!For more from Jennifer and Rachel, check out the … [Read more...]