Spiritual formation does not happen in one week at VBS, however, they can grow in leaps and bounds during a week of VBS with the right support and discipleship at home. Kids need to know that Jesus is not just for church or VBS. Following Jesus transforms the entire life of a believer, and kids need to see that Jesus is an integral part of each piece of your life, including your home life. Here's three practical ways that you can equip parents to prepare their kids for attending VBS, all while establishing or continuing discipleship in the home:
1. Send home an outline of what kids will study each day.
Guide parents to ask their children what they know about the Biblical characters that will be studied. Ask parents to get a good feel of where their kids are on understanding the Bible stories and the Gospel message prior to VBS so they can ask similar questions afterward and evaluate their learning, clearing up any misunderstandings or questions they may have.
2. Even now, you can begin to discuss with them what to expect out of the experience.
Meet with parents or send home some information about what a normal day at VBS looks like. The more comfortable a child new to VBS or new to specific teachers, the more receptive they will be to the message being taught. Tell children that you know the Bible is true. Tell children that they will learn more about Jesus at VBS and explain why you follow Him and what it means to do that.
3. Explain the phrases they may hear at VBS.
Train teachers well to not use confusing statements like, "ask Jesus into your heart," and "Jesus lives in me." Children, especially younger children, are very concrete in their thinking. These phrases sound scary -- Does that require surgery? Communicate with parents what they may hear like "asking Jesus to be in control of your life" or "following Jesus." Explain what these mean prior to VBS and your child will have a better grasp on the message that is being presented…and who knows what great conversations may come of it!?
How do you prepare the kids at church or your own kids for VBS?