The Gift of Suffering

Pondering Philippians: Chapter 1, Verses 19-30

Trials.  Pain.  Loss.  They are to be expected in this world.

We hear a sermon on grace in the midst of suffering and we say, “amen.”  Then we leave the church building and pray it never happens to us.  We will endure mild discomfort for the cause of Christ, but hope to dodge the bullet on any real pain.

We hope to make it through unscathed.  And if, by chance, we make it through with minimal damage – we thank God for His mercies and assume that He must really love us.

What, then, do we do with Philippians 1:29?

For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in Him but also suffer for His sake.

We have been granted the privilege of suffering.  Are we ever as close to Christ as when we feel the weight of the cross on our backs?  John Piper says it this way, “There is more of God to be had in times of suffering than any other time.”  More of God.  Shouldn’t that be our desire?

When we feel beaten up by the world and abandoned by those we love? More of you, God, give me more.

When the loss is so great and the pain so intense? More of you, God, give me more.

This verse is also translated this way:

There’s far more to this life than trusting in Christ. There’s also suffering for him. And the suffering is as much a gift as the trusting.

We live, most days, in ignorance of what it means to suffer.  But, if we are living for Him, our day will come.

May we suffer like Paul – for the advancement of the gospel and to the glory of God.

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Previous posts in the Pondering Philippians series:

Day 1: God is Not Through (Philippians 1:1-11)

Day 2: Your Painful Purpose (Philippians 1:12-18)

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom. You can follow Stacy on Twitter (@sjedwards.)

Your Painful Purpose

Pondering Philippians: Chapter 1, Verses 12-18

Have you ever experienced something so painful that you swore nothing could be worse? Maybe you’re there now?

Whatever trial you currently find yourself facing, according to Paul, there is something worse. Your pain could be in vain. When Paul wrote his letter to the Philippians, he wanted them to know that there was a purpose behind his suffering.

Let’s face it. Everyone has pain. Maybe you are just entering a very dark season. Or, maybe, you are finally able to see some light. Either way, you need to know that your pain has a purpose.

I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard and to all the rest that my imprisonment is for Christ. – Philippians 1:12-13

Painful Purpose #1: Point a lost world to Christ

Your pain can be used to advance the gospel. When you hurt, there is a lost world watching.They are looking to see if your mountaintop faith works in the valley. Paul, in the midst of suffering, was very quick to point others to Christ. Sometimes, when pain comes, it is easy to have a big ol’ pity party and invite all your friends. If you do this, however, you are the guest of honor and it is all about you.

Paul reminds his readers that even his pain is all about Christ.

And most of the brothers, having become confident in the Lord by my imprisonment, are much more bold to speak the word without fear. – Philippians 1:14

Painful Purpose #2: Encourage fellow believers.

Even in pain, you do not walk alone. Other Christ-followers walk the path beside you.

When your fellow believers see you continue to praise Christ in the midst of your pain, it gives them strength to carry on. They see you trust Him for deliverance and they have the courage to do the same.

Paul says that it was because of his very imprisonment that other believers were empowered to preach the gospel. Talk about purpose!

There is no avoiding pain. This is a fallen, broken world and it hurts.

Don’t let your hurt be in vain.

Use the devastation to advance the gospel. The world is watching and they need to see Him.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom. You can follow Stacy on Twitter (@sjedwards.)

God is Not Through

Pondering Philippians : Chapter 1, verses 1-11

There is something you need to hear. Are you ready?  God. is. not. finished. with. you. He just isn’t.

I am sure of this, that He who started a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. - Philippians 1:6

You may look at your life and see mistakes and missed opportunities. The Creator, however, sees the creation that He smiled upon and deemed very good. He sees the end from the beginning and you are somewhere in the middle and He is not through.

You have been knocked down and face flat in your own sin. It would seem that you have taken yourself right out of any good plan He may have had for you. Oh, but you could not be more wrong. For He is the God who picks up the fallen and the broken.  He puts together what the world has shattered and there is beauty in the cracks.  And there will be beauty when He is through.  Give Him time. He is not finished with you.

You may be in a valley so deep that you can not see your way out. That is okay because He sees you. The trial is terrible and the fire is hot, but He is bringing you through.  The Potter is gently molding the clay. He still counts tears and redeems pain. His timing is not yours and you do not understand His ways, but He has begun a good work in you. He is not finished.

But He will finish.  He will leave nothing incomplete and that includes you.

Do not give up.

God is not through.

 

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom. You can follow Stacy on Twitter (@sjedwards.)

Mid-Week Links: The It’s All About Jesus Edition

If you have children in your life you are probably familiar with the cartoon, Arthur. Marc Brown is the author and illustrator behind the Arthur books. I read an article about him and learned that his children’s names are hidden in the illustrations on each page of those books. Every page is a little tribute to them. Fascinating, huh?word

No one loved Jesus like Dr. Glenn Weekley. He performed my wedding and dedicated two of my children. In fact, my second child’s dedication was his last Sunday in the pulpit. We had no way of knowing that the Lord would call him home just a few days later. He was once asked  how he was able to come up with sermon ideas week after week, month after month and year after year. His response was, “It’s simple. You just take a passage of Scripture and run to the cross.”

Sometimes, we make Bible study so complicated. We think we can’t do it right unless we have an expensive journal, colored pens, five different highlighters and a degree on the wall. Here is the simple truth. From Genesis to Revelation, it’s all about Jesus. Just like Marc Brown, God has written His child’s name on every page. He is there in every story. He is the fulfillment of every promise. He is hope. He is freedom. He is life.

So, when you next open those fabulous pages, look for Jesus. It’s His story.

Here are some links to help you focus on Him this week.

  • That’s My King by Dr. S. M. Lockridge (This is a very short video, but it is POWERFUL. As Bro. Glenn used to say, “If that don’t light your fire, your wood must be wet.” Just try and not shout “amen.” I dare ya.)
  • First and Last by Priscilla Shirer (I had the privilege of seeing this live and it still fires me up! Watch this video and be amazed at “who your daddy is!”)
  • Was Jesus Dead, or Just Mostly Dead? by Dr. Stephen Drake at Always a Pastor (This is such a great post regarding the claim that maybe Jesus wasn’t really dead.)
  • It’s Friday, but Sunday’s Coming  (Prepare for the chills that will run up and down your spine. Just try and stay in your seat when watching this.)

You, my friends, are adored and prayed for and so very loved.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom

 

 

Are you full or hungry?

crossMinistry is messy.  People are broken and in desperate need of the Healer.

When I say ministry – don’t tune me out.  I don’t mean that it’s only messy for pastors or missionaries or Sunday school teachers.  Every Christ follower is called to a life of ministry: loving others, serving others, sharing the gospel.  The great commission is for all of us.  And it’s messy.

People are filled with shame, bitterness and disappointment.  They have tried to find their satisfaction in the things of this world and have been left with an emptiness that they simply do not know how to fill.

It’s really not that hard to understand.  The world has a lot of shiny things to offer.  For those not filled with the Holy Spirit, the glitter looks good even it if it isn’t gold.  The Bible says it this way…

A person who is full tramples on a honeycomb,
but to a hungry person, any bitter thing is sweet.- Proverbs 27:7

There are only two options: you are either full or you are hungry. The key, however, is that only God can truly fill us.

When we spend time in prayer, in Bible study and communion with God, we allow Him to fill us.  Then we are not interested in what the world offers – no matter how sweet it may appear.

Sadly, we often get too busy, too preoccupied, too tired to spend that time being filled.  We then wander out into the world hungry and, suddenly, everything seems sweet and desirable. We attempt to fill ourselves with material possessions, man’s praise and mundane pursuits.  Then, instead of feeling full and satisfied, we are left with the bitter aftertaste of disappointment and discouragement.

We need to fill ourselves with the Word and godly things.  It’s a dangerous thing to go out into the world with an emptiness inside.

We need to love our families well.  Fill them with love, respect and an understanding of who they are in Christ. Do not let them look to the world for their identity.

Be filled.  Then tell others how they can be filled, too.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom.

Facing Your Fears

heart sugar cookieI have a great fear of dentists. I have never had a bad experience. In fact, I’ve never had so much as a cavity. Yet, right now? I have this one tooth that is giving me a bit of a fit. With my over-active imagination and a little help from WebMD, I’m pretty sure I need a root canal. And I’m terrified. Sure, I’ve have four c-sections and one emergency appendectomy which almost killed me, but a needle in my mouth just seems barbaric and painful. Did I mention I’m afraid?

Sometimes, God calls us to fearful things.  He leads us to walk on stormy seas and to risk all that we have in obedience to Him.  He does not, however, tell us the what and then leave us to figure out the how.  So, what is a person to do when God sends us out to confront our fears?

Then the Lord said to him, “Go back to the land of your fathers and to your family, and I will be with you.” – Genesis 31:3 HCSB

Go back home.  Those must have been scary words for Jacob.  Surely, he still remembered why he left home. His brother, Esau, was intent on killing him for stealing their father’s blessing.  Jacob had fled for his life and had no reason to believe anything had changed in Esau’s heart.  What was Jacob’s response? Honest obedience.

In the face of great fear and distress, Jacob does four things.

  1. He calls upon God. (Genesis 32:9)  Whether we are dealing with fear, disappointment or sadness, there is only one place we should turn.
  2. He remembers his place before God. (Genesis 32:10)  We are deserving of nothing good from God’s hand.
  3. He admits his fear to God. (Genesis 32:11) We must go to God with our feelings.
  4. He remembers the Word of God. (Genesis 32:12)  In our times of fear and distress, we must remember the promises of God.

There is no way around it – sometimes God calls us to face the fearful things in our lives.  But, look back at God’s words to Jacob.  He instructs Jacob to face his fear and He promises to be with him in the very same breath.

You do not face your fears alone. Whether God has called you to the mission field, to face a scary illness or loss or to stand for Him in the face of opposition – He goes with you.

And, next week, He and I are heading to the dentist.

You, my friends, are adored. I pray your weekend is full of things that remind you of that truth.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom.

 

How to Study Scripture

psalm 16Do you want to be a better student of Scripture, but struggle with where to begin? Do you hear someone talk about a “quiet time” and wonder what that even means? Trust me, you are not alone.

Several years ago, my grandpa passed away and we were going through some things in his home. Packed away in an upstairs bedroom there was a box. In that box were letters he and my grandma had written to each other when he was overseas during World War II. He had to leave her for a short time, but he promised to come back and he told her of his love. In return, she told him how she would be strong while he was gone and would faithfully wait for his return.

The Bible is not a list of dos and don’ts. It is not a bunch of “you do this or else” warnings. It’s a love letter. It is God saying to His beloved (those of us who are in Christ), You are mine and we will be together very soon. It’s one big, romantic, love letter written just for you. It is God promising to come again for us. It is a declaration of His love. Scripture is where we find strength, comfort and the ability to wait faithfully for His return. Do not read the Bible like a textbook. Cherish it like a love letter. 

With that in mind, here are some tips for studying Scripture.

  • Pray. Before you begin reading, ask God to help you understand what you are about to read. The Bible tells us that, after the resurrection, Christ appeared to His disciples and taught them. We are told that Christ “opened their minds to understand the Scriptures” (Luke 24:45.) Ask Him to do the same for you.
  • Read Slowly. It is very popular these days to read the Bible in 90 days. There are a thousand read-the-Bible-in-a-year plans. There is NOTHING wrong with doing those things. However, to truly “study” the Word, take your time. Think “love letter.” Imagine how you would pour over every word.
  • Read in context. Ask questions. Who is speaking? Who is listening? Where are they? Think about the passage I just referenced above, Luke 24:36-48. Read verse 37. But they were startled and terrified and thought they were seeing a ghost. How is that for drama, folks? That makes you want to go read the whole passage, doesn’t it? So, you’re going to ask yourself some questions. Who are “they?” They are the disciples of Christ. Who were they mistaking for a ghost? It was Christ. Why were they terrified to see Christ? They were scared because He has already, at this point, been crucified. Do you feel the tension? The excitement?
  • What now? When you have finished reading a portion of Scripture, ask yourself “what now?” Is there a command that you need to  obey? Is there a promise that you can claim? Is there a sin that you need to repent of and move on from?

I pray you find these tips helpful as you read God’s love letter to you.

You are loved, my friends.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom.

 

Resurrection Activities

“If you stop at the crucifixion, your child misses the glorious resurrection. If you start at the resurrection, your child misses Christ’s payment on the cross for our sins.” — “I Love to Tell the Story” by Jeff Land (HomeLife, March 2013)

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Yesterday I saw this great post about discipling kids in the midst of hectic lives. The author suggests practical ways to teach kids about Jesus using the head, heart, and hands. With Easter just around the corner, now is the perfect time to put these into practice with some hands-on activities that illustrate the resurrection for kids in tangible ways.

Resurrection Eggs

You can do this activity with your kids over the 12 days leading up to Easter or as one longer activity. To start, print this Resurrection Eggs printable: HomeLife Resurrection Eggs Printable

You’ll need an empty egg carton, 12 plastic eggs (Target’s dollar section has these as do most dollar stores), a permanent marker, a Bible, plus these 12 items:

1. palm branch – a small branch, leaf, or clipping

2. silver coins – nickels, dimes, or play money

3. bread – a small piece of bread, a cracker, or a crouton

4. whip – a piece of rope, baker’s twine, or yarn

5. purple cloth – a piece of ribbon or a square cut from an old T-shirt

6. thorns – from a rose or bush, or you can break a toothpick into small pieces

7. cross – whatever you have on hand, such as a sticker, jewelry pendant, or you can make one with toothpicks or sticks

8. nails

9. sign – write on a piece of paper “THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS”

10. spices – whole (not ground) spices, such as cloves or nutmeg

11. stone

12. empty – Jesus is risen!

Get creative and use what you have on hand.

Let your kids decorate a cover for the egg carton. (The resurrection eggs printable above has one your kids can color.) Label your plastic eggs 1 to 12. Using the printable, cut out the 12 Scripture readings to go along with each item. Then fill each egg with the appropriate item and corresponding Scripture. Have your Bible ready for more in-depth discussion.

Want to do this activity but are short on time? You can find a resurrection eggs kit here: http://www.lifeway.com/Product/resurrection-eggs-p005430542

Resurrection Cookies

This activity appeared in HomeLife’s April 1995 issue, and it’s been a favorite ever since. Try it with your kids the night before Easter. HomeLife Resurrection Cookies

Resurrection Rolls

These tasty sweet rolls make a great Easter morning breakfast, and you probably already have these ingredients on hand! HomeLife Resurrection Rolls

Easter is the most important holiday for a Christ-follower. Don’t let it slip by without being intentional to teach your kids the good news.

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Dawn Hollomon is a minister’s wife, mom to a preschooler and a teenager adopted from Ethiopia, and the editor of HomeLife magazine.

Making the Right Choice

*Read Luke 10:38-42

Mothering, homeschooling, housekeeping, writing – all good things. They are ways in which I serve. Sometimes, however,  just when I’m expecting a pat on the back – I get a step on the toes. Not everything good is best and sometimes priorities get all out of whack. Sometimes, a person needs to be reminded. quiet time

Christ followers are called to more than acts of service. We are called to be servants. Yes, there is a difference. Being a servant has to do with attitude more than actions. In order to have the proper attitude, we must spend time with the master.

We have all done it. We have grumbled because someone did not adequately acknowledge our acts of service. We follow the letter, but not the spirit, of the command to serve others. During this conversation with Martha, we find that we cannot serve properly until we have spent time with the Lord. A true servant is, first and foremost, a worshiper.

 

If we do not put worship ahead of service, two things will happen:

  1. We will become distracted. 
  2. We will become bitter.

But Martha was distracted by her many tasks, and she came up and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to serve alone? So tell her to give me a hand.” – Luke 10:40

Do you see it? Martha was distracted by her serving. If we are not people of worship, our acts of service distract us from the savior. We become distracted and then we become bitter. I’ll admit to having a little Martha in me. I’m not proud of it. Lord, don’t you see all that I’m doing? Lord, why doesn’t so-and-so have to take care of these things? Blah, blah, blah. Trust me, it’s not pretty. So, without worship, servants become distracted and bitter.

Why worship?

  1. It is the only thing necessary.
  2. It will not be taken away.

The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.” - Luke 10:41-42

Worship is necessary. The Lord said that Mary, the worshiper, made the right choice. Worship ensures that our hearts are right and that the motives behind our acts of service are pure.

Let’s make sure we are making the right choice. The goal is not to be servants, but to be worshipers who serve.

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me and buxStacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a homeschooling mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ. If you need her, she’s probably hiding in the bathroom.

From One Broken Cistern to Another

heart sugar cookieAs I sat on the couch and put on my make-up this morning, I thought to myself, I’m just so tired.  Granted, the baby was up all night and there was a chill in the air.  I had every reason to want to crawl back into bed and cover up.  Yet, I knew it was more than that.   In the silence of the morning, by the light of one little lamp, I could be honest with God and just say, I’m tired. 

I began thinking about Samuel.  Scripture says that Samuel judged Israel all the days of his life (1 Samuel 7:15.)  This was the job that God had given to Samuel and he did it his whole life.  That is such an important thing to realize. When you are a follower of Christ you are committing to follow Him all the days of your life. It is a life-long commitment and you’re going to get tired.  This is no surprise to God.

He gave us clear instructions on what to do when we become weary.

Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  -Matthew 11:28

God knew that we would get tired. He knew that the journey would be long and the path would not always be easy.  He has promised to give us rest but, first, we must come to Him.

I remember a conversation I had with my husband quite some time ago.  He had mentioned that He would often get tired in the early afternoon. He read somewhere that this could be caused by dehydration.  So, I begin contemplating dehydration, my weariness and a possible need for more water in my life and I am reminded of this passage in Jeremiah.

For My people have committed a double evil: They have abandoned Me, the fountain of living water, and dug cisterns for themselves, cracked cisterns that can hold no water.  – Jeremiah 2:13

Our physical bodies were created with a need for water. Without it, we can become lethargic and fatigued. If we went without it for too long we would die.  For our spiritual lives to thrive we need the living water and, in order to receive the living water, we must come to Him.  When we attempt to go about our lives without Him we become tired and weary.

I love the imagery of God as a fountain and us as cracked cisterns.  When we immerse ourselves in God and His Word the water is constantly flowing over us. It refreshes us and gives us energy.  The problem comes when we think okay, I’m feeling good. I can step away and handle it on my own for awhile.  You see, we are just broken cisterns.  So, the moment we walk away from God, the water leaks out through the cracks. In no time at all, we are dry.  We become dehydrated and dehydration brings weariness.

God, you are my God;
       I eagerly seek you.
       I thirst for you;
       my body faints for you,
       in a land that is dry, desolate
       and without water. - Psalm 63:1

Are you feeling weary?  Maybe you’re just a little dehydrated.

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Stacy Edwards is a trucker’s daughter and a pastor’s wife. She is a freelance writer and a mom to four fabulous little girls. Stacy blogs at Servant’s Life where she uses her words to point others to the hope and encouragement found in Christ.