Be Real

Be Real

AndyBAndy Buckwalter served as a FUGE Bible study leader at Ridgecrest last summer. He currently serves as the Director of Youth Ministry at Crux Youth Ministry. Andy and his wife, Leann, reside in York, Pennsylvania. He has a degree in Youth ministry from Messiah College. Interesting fact about Andy: He once punched a fish underwater because it bit him!

 

Some of us have lived it. All of us have dreaded it. I’m talking about an all too familiar scenario. You are in Bible study, or youth group, and a teenager in the back raises his hand and asks “that” question. The question you went to great lengths to avoid during this Bible study, the one you have been avoiding like the plague for one simple reason. You don’t know the answer.

Now, as the room temperature steadily increases, you have several options. Option one, you can come up with some weak “Sunday school” answer and try to fake your way around it, without actually answering the question and get back to what you wanted to talk about. Option two, disregard their question by saying it is off topic, and say, “we can talk about that another time,” with no intention of doing so. Option three, you throw a bunch of big words at them that you are sure they do not know what they mean (and neither do you). Or option four, fake a heart attack.

But there is another option, and it is one we often forget: Just be real with them. It is ok to say, “I don’t know”. Believe it or not, not knowing everything there is to know about God will not cause you to lose their respect. In fact, being so open with them will gain more respect from them. A technique I have used in the past is to say, “That is a great question. I don’t have an answer for it. What do you guys think?” Turn the question back to the group. Let them discuss it. Feel free to say what you think, but listen first. Be real with them. Some of my best evenings with youth have started with a question that I could not answer, and ended with them dialoguing together about our Lord. Isn’t that what we want?

So the next time this happens, let’s not worry about our pride and how intelligent we look, but rather look to the opportunity God has presented us with.

When they bring you before the synagogues and the rulers and the authorities, do not worry about how or what you are to speak in your defense, or what you are to say; for the Holy Spirit will teach you in that very hour what you ought to say – Luke 12:11-12

The Derby, baseball bats, and FUGE.

The Derby, baseball bats, and FUGE.

Louisville, Kentucky is a city with a lot to offer. There are several reasons you may have taken a trip to Kentucky’s largest city. Maybe you’ve attended The  Kentucky Derby, known to many as “the most exciting 2 minutes in sports.” The Derby is one of the most famous horse races is the world, and is hosted annually at Churchill Downs in Louisville.

Perhaps you’ve taken a visit to The Louisville Slugger Museum and Factory, corporate headquarters and production facility for the famous Louisville Slugger baseball bats. The museum is also home to the World’s Largest Bat, which stands six stories tall.

You may not realize, however, that starting in summer 2013, Louisville became a host city for MFuge. Southern Baptist Theological Seminary is home to FUGE in the Lou, and 2013 showed us what a great partnership FUGE, the Seminary, and the City of Louisville really make.  Great opportunities exist for ministry in downtown Louisville. For example, Louisville offers a Girls Only Track and International Ministry Track.

Southern Seminary has a beautiful campus that includes  a game room, indoor pool and indoor gym. Additionally, there is Founders Cafe (coffee shop), Fifth and Broadway (campus store) and a LifeWay bookstore.We hope you’ll join us in 2014 at Southern Seminary in Louisville! For registration information, click here: http://lfwy.co/ZLh2jO

Southern Baptist Theological Seminary campus

Southern Seminary campus

An MFuge ministry site

An MFuge ministry site